Finding the perfect wedding gown can seem like an arduous task, even if you are after a traditional bridal gown. When you have your heart and eyes set on black wedding dresses, the process is just a touch harder. While finding a black gown in a sea of white isn’t an easy task, it can be done, and we have a few tips and tricks that will make finding that perfect black gown just a little easier.
Can I Wear a Black Wedding Dress?
The simple answer is, yes, you can wear any color you like to your wedding. While black was once seen as a color of mourning, fashion rules have loosened over the years to account for changes in fashion. Black is now seen as elegant, sophisticated and sleek in many circles, and can be worn for any special occasion. While you, as a bride, will be in the minority when it comes to dress choices, a black dress is a perfectly lovely pick, and can work well for brides who consider themselves non-traditional.
Do be aware, however, that a black wedding dress may draw the opinions of some guests, but it is your wedding day and you should wear what makes you feel beautiful and comfortable. If a black wedding gown is what you are after, there are several ways to find black wedding dresses.
Finding a Black Wedding Dress
While black wedding dresses are chic and stylish in some circles, you’ll still have difficulty finding such a dress in a traditional wedding dress boutique or shop. In many cases, roughly 90% of all dresses in any given boutique is white or off-white, at least when it comes to wedding gowns. The other 10% is traditionally made up of other delicate colors, like blush, platinum and silver. Black wedding gowns, simply put, aren’t traditionally carried, but that doesn’t mean you are out of luck, either.
If you have your heart set on a black gown, you can begin by looking in the prom and bridesmaid sections of most stores. Black is often carried in these sections, and you may be able to find a gown that is fitting for a non-traditional bride.
Another option is to have your dress custom made for your needs. This is a riskier option in some cases, but as long as you fine a reputable designer, you are sure to get the dress of your dreams. If you go this route you’ll want to begin the process early, and check in with your designer on a regular basis to ensure the dress is meeting your needs and expectations. Prepare to have several fittings for a custom dress that span several months.
Adding Black Accents
For the bride who isn’t willing to commit to a completely black gown, there are still options. Black embellishments, including sashes, lace and beading, can often be added to any dress at an additional cost. If the bridal shop you purchased your dress from can not do it, a seamstress, tailor or dress designer can often add the embellishments you are looking for. If you choose to go this route, however, be aware that you’ll void any warranty or protection you have on your dress through the bridal shop. You should also look for such a professional early in the process of picking a gown to ensure the work can be done in time for your wedding. Any additions will add additional time to your wedding preparations, so start searching for your perfect gown early in the planning process.
